I recently watched a film called 'Click', basically the story was about a guy who came across a magic remote control! He could fast-forward bits of his life he thought boring, he could pause awkward moments, he could skip bits he didn't want to endure and re-cap on memories he'd lived. This magic remote seemed amazing to start with and everything he ever wanted, however the remote control started to become accustomed to his regular habits. Because he regularly skipped bits of his life, it started to automatically skip parts; leaving the everyday moments of his life with huge holes! He also started skipping to the parts he was aiming for in life; like his promotion. This was to the point where he had missed his kids growing up, precious time with his wife and with his parents before they sadly passed away. By the time he realized it was too late, the time had gone and he couldn't get it back!
It was a stark reminder for me that we can't keep living in the future (if I could just get that new job things will pick up, once the kids are at school it will be better, once we get more money etc). It's not wrong to aim for greater things, but they shouldn't get in the way of enjoying now! We need to cherish those all important everyday moments in the here and now of our lives!
When we realize the here and now of our lives IS OUR LIFE then may be we will start truly living again. I was reminded to appreciate everything about my life. Those small moments may seem insignificant but in the end it is them that make up the bigger picture.
Lv Caroline x
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