Christmas to me is making happy memories with family and friends. The indulgence of unhealthy food goes without saying, as well as a stream of children's parties to attend, an endless pile of wrapping, silly Christmas songs to either sing-a-long to or endure, and not forgetting the Santa Claus that looks a little worse for wear; or he certainly needs to eat a few more mince pies to look the part! Joking aside, Christmas means two words to me - LOVE and HOPE.
When the glitter and the tinsel has disappeared and normal life resumes do we feel fulfilled, do we feel hopeful regarding our future? Life is a journey and every single one of us go through times of happiness, love and peace, but it's also only human to experience moments of struggle, hardship, doubt and worry.
I believe the Christmas story is significant for our whole lives not just at Christmas because when Jesus came, he came to bring the world HOPE and that means me and you too in our everyday moments. This HOPE & LOVE is much bigger than any human can give, people let us down but this love is constant and never failing.
Jesus came as a light to the world; a light to shine in the darkness. When we go through our dark moments and when we see the world in it's dark times, I believe it's time that we remembered again this amazing HOPE that God has given us. When we put Christ back into our Christmas we also put HOPE back into our lives!
Have a wonderful time celebrating and Merry Christmas!
Lv Caroline x
From John 1 - Eternal life is in him, and this life gives light to all mankind. His life is the light that shines through the darkness—and the darkness can never extinguish it. Later on, the one who is the true Light arrived to shine on everyone coming into the world. But although he made the world, the world didn’t recognize him when he came. Only a few would welcome and receive him. But to all who
received him, he gave the right to become children of God. All those who believe this are reborn!—not a physical rebirth resulting from human passion or plan—but from the will of God. And Christ became a human being and lived here on earth among us and was full of
loving forgiveness and truth. And some of us have seen his glory, the
glory of the only Son of the heavenly Father!
This is why Jesus came, from Isaiah 61 - The Spirit of God, is on me, because God anointed me. He sent me to preach good news to the poor, heal the heartbroken and set those oppressed free. God sent me to announce the year of his grace and to comfort all who mourn and give them beauty instead of ashes, messages of joy & hope instead of news of doom and a praising heart instead of a spirit of despair.
John 16v33 - In this world you may have trouble, but take heart, I have overcome the world.
It always amazes me how very unique and different we all are in personality, talents and aspirations. To me, this is what makes life so wonderful, inspiring and at times breathtaking. Our individuality is actually our gift to the world. We should never hide who we really are but enjoy the fact that we are made this way for a reason. Life is the exciting journey into finding out why we are here and what we can do with our lives.
Life is relatively short, some have longer lives than others, so we really need to value our lives and number our days. I am always asking myself the question, what am I doing with the time I have got, what am I doing with my talents, with my love and my resources, even my money? Am I pursuing my dreams and reaching for a healthy life purpose?
These are HUGE questions and it's not always clear what our goals should be. However, knowing what your gifts are is a good start to knowing your life's purposes, as well as your desires for life. What gifts & personalities do you hold in your hand, whether it be, in business, working with children, in encouragement of others, to give finances to charity, to adopt children, writing, music or art. Are you sporty, energetic, quiet or funny? I recently saw a post about a lady who adopted 29 children; this is not something for most people, but this was obviously what she felt purposed to do - may be for her, she felt it was part of her life's purpose.
Lets face it because of how short life is, we can't necessarily run after every opportunity that comes our way, so how can we be sure we are not wasting our lives. As a Christian myself, I believe we are all created different for a very good reason. God wants to unlock our dreams we have for life and then align them with His. He also wants us to grow in character and learn about ourselves and others. Our diversity is amazing and I believe when we fully trust God with all that we are, He can bring about amazing opportunity to live out our life's purpose step by step.
Our life is more often full of small steps, not always huge leaps, so we don't always see what the path is ahead of us, but as we pray about our dreams God is often working behind the scenes enabling us to to reach them! If our dreams align to the heart of God, which is always a force for good, then there is no stopping what can be achieved in our lives; we will be released to do more, to live more, to give more than we ever dreamt possible!
We are never too old or too young to set new dreams - life is for living at whatever age. It's an exciting ride, life, let's enjoy it more and more!
Lv Caroline x
Quotes from the Bible:
For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. Eph 2 v 10
Therefore I remind you that you stir up the gift of God that is in you. 2 Tim 1 v 6
The Lord will fulfill his purpose for me. Psalm 138 v 8
And we know that for those who love God all things work together for
good, for those who are called according to his purpose. Rom 8 v 28
So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom. Psalm 90v12
Thinking on the World Wars, we all ponder, honour and remember to thank those that gave their lives for our freedom. What a great task to have to undertake, what a sacrifice they gave and what a great cost they paid!
The poignant picture of the red sea of poppies around the Tower of London in 2014 was very moving and have seen many others take on this creative idea in schools, churches or memorials - a sea of red poppies, a powerful picture of those who shed their own blood for us in order that we can now enjoy the good, free life we lead today. Most of us have family history connected to the world wars, it's something that will live in our hearts forever.
Poppies & the Christian Faith
The red poppy reminds Christians of the blood shed by those fallen in wars but also Jesus' blood as he died on the cross. God sent his son Jesus into our world in order that ordinary people could know Him on a personal basis. Christianity is not a set of rules to follow but a relationship with God, it's a journey of love and hope. God loves everyone despite how bad they may feel about themselves. Jesus said, "I ask you to love one another as I have loved you". Jesus also said, "I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me". The only way to know God is through Jesus himself. People often don't understand the meaning of Christian Communion, but there's nothing religious or complicated about it, simply the bread and the wine are just symbols of remembrance of what Jesus did on the cross and the love He holds for us.
John 3 v16 - For God so loved the world that he gave his only son that whoever believes on Him will not die, but have eternal life.
Christians remember and thank God for sending Jesus, who gave His life willingly for our spiritual freedom. Jesus' death gives us forgiveness, love and hope and the ultimate promise of heaven. We also remember and say thank you to those who fought for our country, for those who gave their lives willingly for our earthly freedom.
We will remember and we will not forget. xxx
They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow
old,
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning,
we will remember them. (Lawrence Binyon)
Christian Prayer: We pray for all the families who may have lost loved ones through war and pray you will comfort them today. We pray for peace around the world and that light will shine through the darkness. Help us to walk in goodness and light that the world will become a better place. Thank you for sending Jesus to die on the cross for my spiritual freedom and giving me your love. God I ask you will help me to know you more. Thank you. Amen.
When we pray we don't always get an answer straight away. If we're not careful, this can be a time when we question our faith, give up or walk away from God. However, if we are willing to hold on and see God follow through then we are in for some great rewards.
I prayed for 2 years about what job I should do once my daughter started school and 2 years is a long time to pray about something with no answer. However, I didn't worry about it and didn't give up on God. Just at the exact time when I needed it God came through for me, sure enough he found me the perfect job, which I absolutely love, and it transpired in a way that I could have never manufactured myself! My husband also prayed many years ago (prob at least 7-10 years ago) he would one day work at a certain IT company, he is now living that dream working for his dream company. Before he got there however, he went through 2 redundancies and 2 other jobs; when things get tough are we going to quit?
Sometimes we have to wait for answers, but it is what we do in the waiting period that really matters. Do we give up? I really hope not, because we need to keep holding on, keep pursuing prayer and trust God even when the answers don't seem to be coming. In fact, it is in these times when our faith and hope can grow much further and much deeper.
We live in a world of instant everything, therefore we want instant answers when it comes to our lives. We need to remember that things regarding our lives are not always instant and things can take time. God hears our prayers and we have to trust Him that behind the scenes He is working it all out for us.
We have to rest easy in the knowledge that some prayers can take a while and some are answered much quicker. I prayed only recently about a small family issue and it was answered during the same day!
I mentioned to a friend only recently that a prayer said in faith with a sincere heart, is always heard. I believe this to be true, when we pray about genuine concerns about our lives, God has heard and He will follow through if we are willing to keep holding on. It's a shame to know so many, who gave up before the answers came and therefore never met the fulfilment of that prayer!
Don't give up on God but wait for Him to follow through in your life - you will never be disappointed.
Bible Verses:
Keep constant in prayer and never give up - Luke 18 v1
And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those called according to His purpose - 2 Cor v16
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances - 1 Thes 5 v16
Society is slightly obsessed with looking good. Beauty is all over
Hollywood, beauty is prized and highly esteemed and is something sought
after! It's the age of beauty creams promising you will look 10 years
younger in a few weeks time, the age of facelifts, bodywraps, tummy tucks,
botox - yes you can have it all!
So when you look in the mirror, what do you see? What do you see
in yourself? We often see our imperfections, the things we want to change
about ourselves. We are aiming for perfection but always fall
short...........outward beauty has it's place, however if the mirror were to show the inside of us, would it be a beautiful image staring back?
The bible talks about the potter and the clay; the clay is an analogy of us as people and the potter is God himself. God's not after our accomplishments or our outward beauty, God is looking for our hearts. God has formed the clay
but are we willing for Him to mould our hearts into something more beautiful than we ever could be in ourselves. It's a humbling thing to do, as it means letting go of
all we think we are and letting God do his transforming work.
All those
lumps and bumps in our character can be made smooth, all those scars from hurts
from the past and all those imperfections we dislike in ourselves can be made new. Change can be hard because it means letting go of our status quo, but God
can truly give us happiness when we let him into our lives and change us!
He can do amazing work on our hearts, not abruptly, but gently and with care.
A lump of clay is not very pretty and not really useful, and even if you feel
broken, let God form you again into something beautiful, something usable and
something you never thought you could be!
Bible Reading: Jer 18 3-5 So I went down to the
potter’s house and saw him working with clay at the wheel. He was making a pot from clay. With his hands he shaped the pot the way he wanted it to be (something beautiful). Then this message from the Lord came to me you know that I can do the same thing with you. You are like the clay in the potters hand, and I am the potter.
Isaiah 64 v 8 - Yet you, LORD, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.
We can often get into a habit of looking at other people and seeing their accomplishments as something amazing, but forget to value our own successes. I've seen many of my friends accomplish some great things but I've also seen the journey it took for them to get there! The journey was often hard, long and a lot smaller than where they are today.
Just because something
starts small doesn't mean it will stay small, but it often depends if someone
is willing to persevere through the hard, through the long and through
the small in order to reach the big.
We live in a world today where a lot of people want instant fame and fortune but without any effort. X-factor, for instance, promotes the instant ticket to fame without the long road of working hard for it. For some artists it's taken them years of commitment to become remotely famous.
Just like a tiny seed, small things need time to grow and develop. When I first started playing the piano it was honestly like pulling teeth. It was difficult, it was a very long process and it has taken many years of playing to get to where I am now (and I am no where near professional yet)! It's not something you can get instantly, but only by a constant perseverance. If I would have despised the day of my small, there's no way I would be where I am today. Think of a child learning to read, it takes time and patience; parents often need a lot of patience when it comes to their child's learning.
I just wanted to encourage those may be starting out on a venture, whether it be business, family, church, friends, music, not to despise the day of small beginnings, but as you grasp the reins with commitment, your small will grow and grow into something amazing!
Everyone wants to be part of the BIG and not the SMALL and everyone wants to associate with the SUCCESSFUL, but may I ask the most important question of all........will we be people that will pioneer through the small in order for others to enjoy the big? - Now that takes staying power and commitment!
As I was praying recently, I felt this may be a word of encouragement for someone.......As you look at your current situation, all you can see is a forest of trees. You are unable to see a way forward & it looks difficult. But God wants you to know that even though you can't see and your options seem small, there is something amazing beyond the trees. Keep moving forward and He will eventually lead you into a spacious place filled with good things.
Remember the smallest of seeds can eventually grow into the largest of trees!
Lv Caroline x
Bible Readings:
Zech 4v10 - Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.
Psalm 18v19 - He brought me out into a spacious place.
No matter how you feel or what has happened in your life............never forget your life holds value and you are amazing!
Even if everything has gone wrong and you feel you have nothing.........I always revert to the quote "You are valuable because you exist not because of what you do or what you have done, simply because you are." This is so true, we are all valuable because we are, because we are unique and because you are just you! If we put our value in our jobs, professions, looks etc, what happens in life if one day we lose these things? How will we see our value?
I believe low self esteem and self loathing are the biggest killers of our perceived value. We often feel less valued because of our inner voice telling us we are useless, that no-one cares or that we are worthless. It's been proven that if we repeat saying something over and over again, we begin to believe it. Therefore if we keep reaffirming our negative thoughts, our situation will only go down into a negative spiral rather than an upward positive one. For every negative thought about yourself, it may help to combat it with one that is positive too. This makes me turn to another quote,
"The most important battles of life are the ones you fight in the silent
chambers of your soul", so true, sometimes we have a mental battle that we need to win.
The subject of life's value reminds me of the film 'This Wonderful Life'. The main character in the story realises that if he would have never been born then he wouldn't have been able to bless the people he had met in his life....even though he didn't believe it at the time, his life held terrific value!
My Christian belief helps me grasp that even when we are down to nothing, we are still loved by God. It doesn't matter how low we go or how awful we think we are. When the storms come and the rain is constantly falling.......keep holding onto hope. I honestly believe that God can turn our storms into a message; a message to one day help others who may be going through the same hardships.
From the tiniest baby to the oldest person around, every life holds much value. Keep going and never give up, fight for the positive over your life and gain renewed strength.
Lv Caroline x
Bible references:
Luke 12 6-9 “What’s
the price of two or three sparrows? Some loose change, right? But
God never overlooks a single one. And he pays even greater attention to
you, down to the last detail—even numbering the hairs on your head! You’re worth more than a
million sparrows.
Isaiah 40 30-31 -
Even young people become worn out and get tired. Even the best of
them trip and fall. But those who trust
in the Lord will receive new strength.
They will fly as high as eagles. They will run and not get tired. They
will walk and not grow weak.
I've heard this statement said many many times, that 'faith in God is only for weak people needing a crutch to rely on'. God is just a weak option for those not wanting to face the reality of life and death.
Yes, just looking on the surface, it could easily be seen that way. However, I would say Christianity is certainly closer to the opposite of this statement, because when we start looking at living out faith, in reality it requires 'a somewhat strong person' to commit to change. Christian actually means 'Christ like', so no pressure there then when it comes to living out faith ha ha.
When we start looking at the things God cares about and the nature of God himself, we suddenly realise our lives have much to do with our heart, which ultimately will effect how we will live out our lives. It takes a strong person to stand firm in committing to changing those things within us that need attention. In fact, I actually believe some things in our nature are impossible to change without God's help.
Whether a person of faith or not, you would all agree that it takes a strong person to forgive, it takes an extra strong person to forgive those who have hurt us - especially our enemies, it takes a strong person to love across class, race & religion, it takes a strong person to hope when there is none, it takes a strong person to persevere through hardships, it takes a strong person to stay humble when successes come and strength of character when temptations arise. All of these heart issues, including many others, are spoken about by God and about the best way to deal with them in everyday life - challenging, yes it is! Many people run from faith, because they are scared of what they will find out about themselves.
Living a life of faith is certainly not the easy road, because God talks a lot about changing our selfishness. Therefore I cannot agree with the statement 'faith is just a crutch' for those too weak. Faith actually can help your character (the inside of you) to become stronger. I know the statement often refers to the idea of the promise of heaven and yes, this is the belief of a Christian, but in no way is it the whole picture of the Christian life.
Be encouraged to continue and persevere in your Christan faith, to live out the great life God wants you to have. God's ideas on life are the best.....because he knows exactly what we need to be contented and ultimately happy.
Lv Caroline x
Bible Verses:
Matt 7 13-14 Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide
and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who
enter through it. For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.
2 Cor 12-9 God says, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in
weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my
weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
There are all different sorts of people in society, the educated, the wealthy, the poor, the uneducated, the trendy, the old fashioned, the quirky, the standard, the quiet and the loud. Whoever you are, we have come into contact with many different people of all walks of life and class.
However, it's human nature to want to stick with those people of similar thinking, class and background to ourselves, that is where we are all more comfortable and where we fit. I heard of a lady who has recently written a book on the comings and goings of the children's playground and how the mums waiting for their kids in the playground, tend to befriend other mums who are of similar class & background as them. It's basic psychology of human behaviour to draw towards those people we are comfortable with.
However, from a Christian aspect the bible tells us to embrace ALL people whether, poor, wealthy, uneducated, quirky etc. It's a challenge because it smashes away any preconceptions we may have about people we meet.
From a Christian stand point, God actually views everyone the same across their class, background or culture, no one is more or less. That's because God looks at people's hearts and that is what makes every human the same across any background. When we die, our class or background isn't going to matter but it will be our heart that God will see.
I remember Rachel Issitt, a friend of mine, speaking in church about 'building bridges in our relationships'. It's so true, everyone is welcome in God's house and our arms should reach out to ALL people. During Jesus' time on earth he made it very clear to us that regardless of who people were by race, culture or class, he included them in his love.
It's very easy to make judgements, but may be it's time to put new glasses on and view certain people how God sees them. For instance, we can make judgements about people's behaviour patterns or addictions but often it's because they are hurting in some way! God wants to help us build bridges of friendship to all people of every class and background anywhere and everywhere!
Lv Caroline x
I've recently been staggered of how many of my friends are going through really difficult times. It has struck me that no one is immune to going through hardships; if we are human it's almost a guarantee that we will have to go through some valleys in life before we can climb the mountain top.
Can our circumstances make us a better person.....or a bitter person? We can all become broken at times, but how do we get back onto the road of healing? Here are 8 things that can be helpful:
There's nothing wrong with crying - it is proven scientifically that there's nothing better than a good cry to help relieve our stress and emotions. By crying we are releasing our hurt rather than having to bury it deep within us. Often if we keep our emotions in it will take a lot longer to heal our hurts. Crying can be seen as weakness by some but it really does help get our hurts out so we can move forward.
Talk to people you can trust - when you go through difficulties get around family and friends that love you and that you trust. There's nothing like a good chat to help get our feelings out. Arrange to meet you're trusted friends for coffee or lunch and have a good chin-wag. It also helps us think through our situation and decide on the best way forward. Ensure you meet with people you can trust and ensure you pick your friends well; not ones that are likely to spread gossip.
Keep a grip on hope - when we face hardships we often feel a sense of hopelessness; that things are never going to improve. It's vital to keep hold of some kind of hope that things will improve with time and that things will eventually get better. Don't forget this - H.O.P.E (Hold On Pain Ends).
Don't let fear rule - our fears can often misconstrue the actually truth of a situation. Fear can sometimes take over and we cannot focus on anything else but the problem. For some, often fears can make a mountain out of a molehill, and it's not until we look back later that we realise the problem was a lot smaller than we thought. As we go through dark times, we have to try and let go of our fears and turn them into faith.
Focus on your blessings - through hardships it's good to remember your blessings, ie. your children, job, family etc. It's good to change your focus to the things you have got currently in your life, rather than that things you currently do not have. This helps us again focus on the positives.
Build your confidence - our confidence in ourselves and our self esteem can sometimes be knocked as we go through hardships. We can often blame ourselves for things that we really shouldn't. It's good to remember however, that you are a great person with lots a value. Ensure you keep in mind your value and your worth. You are amazing - don't let anyone tell you different!
You are not alone - it helps us to know that usually there are other people going through the same things as you; you are not an alien but are normal! As we realise this we can get along side others and help them too.
Use your pain to eventually help someone else - I think this one is amazing - that we can use the experiences we have been through to then help others overcome theirs. When we go through something difficult it often puts us in the shoes of others and we are able to help and sympathize more effectively. We are also able to spot the same hurts in others and go and give them a word of encouragement.
As a christian myself I also take my burdens to God. It says in Matt 11 v 30 -
Jesus said: "Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light". Even if everything else is falling around me, I find my faith is somewhere I can go for peace. Peace of mind and soul, and a way to get myself back on the right track for life.
Whatever your circumstance today, be proud of how far you have already come and keep focusing on the hope and faith to move forward.
Love and blessings.
Caroline xx
Ever felt like you've squandered your life a little; like you may have wasted some years doing certain things but to no gain. May be you feel like things should have turned out better for you and you're disappointed about your life.
I think all of us can relate to this a little, but the great thing is we don't have to stay in that place of waste and wanting. We can change our lives by pursuing our purpose and aiming for higher ground. May be it's time to let go of those things we once thought important, especially if they are stopping us moving forward. It's never too late to change our lives.
There's a story in the Bible of a young boy that took his inheritance early from his father and squandered it all on good living. Eventually this good living caught up with him and he had nothing left; no money, no friends and quite probably ill health because of his lifestyle. He hit rock bottom before he came to his senses.
The boy was so desperate that in the end that he decided to humble himself and go back to his father, expecting him to be very angry. So he returned and while he was still along way off, his father saw him coming. Rather than being angry, he was filled with love and compassion - he ran to his son and embraced him with a kissed him. But the son said "Father I have done wrong and no longer deserve to be called your son". Immediately the father said to the servants, "Quick! Bring the finest robe in the house and put it on him, give him gifts and lets celebrate with a feast - for this son of mine was once lost but now he is found!
What an amazing story of love, compassion, forgiveness & hope. The father is actually an illustration of God our heavenly father and the son is an illustration of us at some points in our lives. We have all made mistakes, we have all wasted our time and energies on wrong things, we have all been broken and we have all got ourselves into problems, however, it's never too late to return to our heavenly father.
The great thing is that nothing we can do or say would make God love us less. Wow, this is God's love for you and me - it's endless. God will never impose himself upon us but rather He is waiting patiently for us to come back to Him.
It's better to stop and look at our lives before we hit rock bottom - we will save ourselves much grief. We can all change with a little time and help, but we have to make the first difficult steps to help ourselves. Be encouraged.
Love Caroline x
Taken from The Bible, Luke 15 - The parable of 'The Prodigal Son'.
Does God really listen to us when we call out to him?
It doesn't matter whether you practice faith or not, the act of coming to God with a sincere prayer, causes Him to act and do something. He loves us and will help us if we are first willing to come to Him. When we take this first step it shows God we have at least an ounce of faith (confident belief) in Him. It says in the bible, faith as small as a mustard seed will move mountains. I believe this is what God is talking about here; faith no matter how small means such a lot to God and is very powerful! If faith as small as this can cause God to move imagine what big faith can do!
I recently read a book called 'Beautiful' by Katie Piper (the girl who had acid thrown at her face in 2007), here is a quote from her book: "For the first
time in my life I prayed to God I'd never believed in: please help me,
give me strength, show me a way through this. But even then I'd decided
I was going kill myself - take an overdose or throw myself out of a
car. But then all of a sudden the weirdest feeling crept over me. It
felt like a warm hug as though I was filled with light. I heard a voice
say: everything is gonna be OK. You're journey's just begun &
you'll get through this. May be God answered me".
Also very recently, we had a charity called Teen Challenge visit our church, the guys helped by the charity all had terrible issues of rejection, addiction and drug abuse. One girl came from a family of drug users, she also did drugs because it was the norm. She got herself into trouble many times, eventually losing everything she had, including her home, family, friends and possessions. In her desperate need, she prayed for the first time; "please help me, get me out of this God, please do something". A few weeks later someone invited her to church, but she very skeptical about it, however through this she then got introduced to the Teen Challenge programme. She was able to go into rehab and is now completely free of all addictions; she has her life back again. A quote from her: "God heard my prayer and helped me get in touch with people that could help rescue me".
On a personal note, I have prayed for 2 years now for God to provide a job for me to start this Autumn. I was offered the perfect job only a few weeks ago, exactly at the right time, exactly in the right line of work when I needed it.
There are many other examples of God acting when we pray. Two of the examples above are of people who had never prayed in their life before, but it still caused God to move and do something and help them in their circumstances. With confidence we can call upon Him because the God of the bible is a prayer-hearing God!
It's never too late to pray, even if you haven't before. You don't need to be a perfect person, we can come as we are! We live in a very non-spiritual society today but it's better not to leave it so late in the day that when we pray, we are either in great distress or on our death beds. God wants us to speak with Him when times are good too. For those that pray regularly if hard times hit, you can guarantee God has already worked out your help - don't you just love that.
Lv Caroline xx
Bible Verses:
Psalm 18 v 6 - In my distress I cried to the Lord for his help, and he heard me from heaven.
Ex 22 v 23 - When they cry out to me, I will certainly hear their cry.
Psalm 34v 8 - I call out to the LORD, and he answers me.
Psalm 31 v 22 - In my alarm I said, "I am cut off from your sight!" Yet you heard my cry for mercy when I called to you for help.
Psalm 50v15 - Call on me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you will honor me.
Psalm 66v 19 - God has surely listened and has heard my prayer.
Psalm 118 v 5 - When hard pressed, I cried to the LORD; he brought me into a spacious place.
We often talk ourselves down, I'm no good, I look awful and can't do that - I think we all do from time to time. If we're feeling low this is the worse thing we can do, as we just end up in a vicious circle that we cannot escape and if we're not careful, we end up feeling totally deflated! When we are feeling negative it's always useful to try and focus on our blessings and the things we do have in our lives.
It's really great when we meet people who influence us in a positive way; they make
us laugh and bring out the best in us. It is so important in life that
we stay around those things that are good for us and be around people
who provide a positive influence on our lives. This is because right
and wrong, positive and negative, can swing within us very easily; we
can be influenced either way.
To have a positive, good life....keep
positive things and people near to you! If something or someone is effecting you negatively and is bringing out the worst in you, may be
it's time to let it or them go. It's a posing question but are we also a positive person for others to be around? I love this quote, "don't be a drain be a fountain".
I realise some of us are going through difficult stressful times and it is in those times we need to keep hold of those positive things and friends who will lift us up again. It is then when I'm also reminded of this quote "we can't always wait for the storm to pass we have to learn to dance in the rain".
Keep thinking on the good things and be thankful for all your blessings - I'm sure we all have more than we think if we look hard enough.
Lv Caroline x
Biblical principle taken from Phil 4 v 8 - Summing
it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your minds and
meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling,
gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to
praise, not things to curse.
This is a statement I have heard many times and I partly agree with it because most people we know and meet are great people, wonderful friends and reasonable citizens.
A Moral Core
I believe most of us know right from wrong, this has been built within the fabric of our souls. I believe we all have a moral core, so no matter who we are we all have the capacity for good. We have an awareness of whether our actions are decent (I realize some of this is learnt behaviour from our parents and outside influences etc, but not all).
Greatness within us
Humans have the gift of greatness and love within them and this is why we see people doing really great, amazing, compassionate things in life! We are, most of the time, very amicable beings. As a Christian myself, it says in the bible we have been made in God's image and therefore we all have, in part, God's nature within us.
Are we 100% perfect?
Everyday people we usually meet are good people - this cannot be denied, however, although some would like to think it, none of us can truly say we are 100% all good, if we did it would undoubtedly be a lie; we all do small things wrong - it's part of our human nature too. So the question of us being a good person with good morals is not strictly true if we are brave enough to look deep within ourselves.
Why do we need God?
On the other hand, God is a Holy God and completely perfect. We therefore all have a need for God to help us with those little things we struggle with; addictions, anger, jealously, pride, deception, two-faced chat, worry, back-biting, selfish gain, to name a few. When we encounter God for ourselves, He encourages us to become more like Him by highlighting those areas of our character that need a bit of work and helps us overcome those things. I also believe as a result, God restores to us those things that are lacking too like happiness, peace and contentment.
Many people find the bible hard to accept as it talks about our heart issues. People say, how dare someone suggest I'm not perfect! God doesn't highlight our faults (biblical word-'sin'), and the bible wasn't written to beat us down with a stick because God hates us, no it's because he loves us so much and wants us to have the best life possible. As we work on our heart issues we struggle with we can hopefully make a start at changing little by little for the better, which will eventually effect our whole life including others around us. Surely that is something to be praised not cursed!
Some of you may be saying right now - well I'm fine and I don't feel I need to change or become better. That's fine, we all have a choice and it should never be a forced choice; it's your heart and you decide how you want it to be.
I'm not saying it's easy to think we may have flaws, but by admitting so, at least we can make a start in helping ourselves.
Lv Caroline x
2 Cor 3 18 - Our lives gradually becoming brighter and more beautiful as God enters our lives and we become like him.
